toplogo

Welcome Guest
Join here
Members Log-In
Privacy Policy

Monday May 12,2008


searchSearch


CHANNELS

Children & Grief
Grief Support
Death & the Spirit
Funerals & Customs
Healing from all Losses
Sudden & Violent Death
Caregiving & Illness

TOP 5 SUPPORTS

Find a Buddy Now
Light a Candle
Share Your Story
Talk on Our Boards
Post a Heart of Hope

FEATURES

Peace Corner
Experts
Quizzes

STORE

Beyond Perspective
'Remember' Pins
Pet Brochures
Grieving Gifts
Pet Loss Gifts
Healing Help

STORIES

Miss You, Gramps
Never Got to Say Goodbye
My Mother, My World
More Stories »

MEMORIALS

Bob Baltzell
Immanuel Don P Cruz
Connie Desimone
Darrell E Huntley
Dianne M Jungwirth
Iris Ada Kay
Todd Kelley
More Memorials »

PROFESSIONALS

Web Design
Interactive Tools
Healing Help

ABOUT US

Our Company
Read Our Blog
Jobs
Volunteers
Contact Us
 
  Home>>Healing from Loss >>Losing A Pet

Frannie and Frieda

by Heather

My story is of two very loved family pets, Frannie and Frieda. Two very missed cats. Both hit by a vehicle on our street. First Frannie, a very affectionate six year old grey tabby she loved nothing more that to hang around out side with her cat buddies.

I am an airline employee/web coordinator. The week of the tragic events in New York City, I was working frantically to keep up with events, making sure information provided through our website was not only current but also sensitive to the situation. On Friday September 14,2001 I thought the worst was over. It had been an emotionally and physically draining week. I arrived home only to have my neighbor come to my door with Frannie in a box. She had been run over by a car.

I was still trying come to terms with her loss when I arrived home on Monday January 14, 2002 to find Frieda in the street. I drove up my street and there she was. In the center of the road. When I left the house she was inside; after the loss of Frannie, I vowed never to leave the house again and leave her out.

She had gotten out on when my house keeper came over. I had left strict instructions never to let the cat out. Frieda was not road smart at all. She was wonderful cat. She was not even two years old.

I think one of the problems is our house is at the bottom of a large hill. There is a great lack of regard for the posted speed limit. Drivers seem to think they are immune to animals or worse, children, stepping out from the curb. I have contacted my local police department to see if they are not willing to at least increase police visibility in this area.

My husband and I are now going to sell this house; we just cannot stay here.

My husband would like to get another cat right away. I however do not agree with this. I think we should wait until the move is completed. Nothing will bring back Frannie or Frieda.

If I can say anything at all it is to give your pet everything it needs .Just keep them safe or if outside on a lead. I know there is deeper tragedy than the loss of two cats, but for me it is the issue at hand that I must find a way to deal with right now.


I am having trouble coming to terms with the loss of two, family pets. Both with in the last three months. Both hit by a car on my street.

   

Go to Peace Corner

printerPrinter-friendly version
emailE-mail this article

Feel better with a cookie

Gifts for all occasions


© 2008 Beyond Indigo®, Kelasan Inc